Today’s Gospel gives us the image of a well.
In many parts of the world, people go to the well to draw water to live. But it is also where people meet, talk, and share their lives. A well is not only about water. It is about finding life when we are empty. And every one of us needs a well. Because sooner or later, life leaves us thirsty.
A well is not only about water. It is about finding life when we are empty.
Dorothy Day, the founder of the Catholic Worker movement wanted to change the world. She organized people, wrote articles, and protested injustice. But she eventually became exhausted and discouraged. Everything seemed to be going wrong.
Looking back, she realized she had become proud and self-reliant — doing everything herself instead of letting God work through her. She recognized that she had been living a lonely life, trying to fill an emptiness inside until she finally realized that:
“It begins with the people nobody else wants — the ones who hurt, the ones who are angry, the ones who have nothing left to give. They are my meeting place with God.”
That was the place where God met Dorothy Day and filled her heart again. She later said that God would not judge us by how successful we were at changing the world, but would simply ask us: Were you faithful in loving and serving the poor?
Dorothy Day found her well — the place where God’s love could fill her again.
In today’s Gospel someone else is searching for a well. A Samaritan woman goes to draw water, but we see that she is thirsty for more than water. She comes to the well at noon, the hottest part of the day probably to avoid other people. She carries a heavy burden. She has been married five times and now lives with a man who is not her husband. She likely knows the whispers and the judgment and the shame. So, she comes when no one else will be there. When she arrives, Jesus is there, and Jesus does something shocking. Jews were forbidden to speak to Samaritans or be alone with any woman. Jesus breaks both barriers.
He speaks to her and slowly draws her into a conversation about her life. He names the painful truth about her past without condemning or humiliating her. Instead, he offers her living water that springs from within and flows up to eternal life.
And something beautiful happens. The woman who came to the well hiding from people leaves her water jar behind and runs back into the town, no longer hiding but proclaiming, “Come see a man who told me everything I have done.”
Her life has changed — from shame to hope, from isolation to faith, from silence to proclamation.
During Lent, the Gospel asks us a simple question: Where is our well? Where is the place where we meet God? quiet prayer? when we help someone in need? when we forgive someone who hurt us? when we sit with someone who is lonely or suffering? Maybe, like Dorothy Day, we meet God in the people the world forgets. Where is the place where God fills your heart? Because we all become thirsty sometimes. We become discouraged. We carry regrets. We struggle with sin. We feel alone. We need to return to the well.
But the Gospel leads us to an even deeper truth. The well is not only somewhere out there in the world. The well is right here at this table.
Here Christ offers us the living water of his life and meets us where we are — with our burdens, our failures, and our thirsts. Like the Samaritan woman, we come carrying our empty hearts.
And Christ fills them with his lifegiving Spirit. So, this morning, as we come to the table remember: you have nothing to hide, nothing to fear. Nothing — not our sins or failures, not even our shame — can separate us from the love of God. The living water is here. The well is here. Christ is here, ready to fill our hearts again.
Stephen A. Privett, S.J. is a Jesuit priest and president emeritus of the University of San Francisco, and a friend of the Center's founder for more than fifty years.
Reproduced from the homily as delivered. ← Back to Reflections