Reflections

Writing, talks, and conversations.

Occasional pieces from our clinicians and friends — interviews, talks, homilies, and short essays on the work of psychotherapy, and the life it asks of us.

Aura of Gold

Written after the death of the author’s closest friend: on grief and the theories that try to map it, and on the companion whose listening made a hopeful life possible again.

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The Man in Blue Jeans

Written after a triage intake at a transitional care clinic: a man just out of the hospital, the story he told, and the moon that kept him in the world. With a recording of the poem in the author’s own voice.

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On Suffering, Presence, and Grace

Psychologist, teacher, and Jesuit priest, Sonny Manuel, S.J., has spent a lifetime accompanying people through pain. He reflects on presence, the question beneath all others — “Do you love me?” — and a God who does not trade in outcomes.

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Lift Me Up

Marking fifty years as a Jesuit, Sonny Manuel, S.J., reflects on the one desire beneath all our loving — that those we love be alive and well — and on the delight that, underground or above ground, lifts us into being.

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A guest series

Homilies by Stephen A. Privett, S.J.

Stephen “Steve” Privett, S.J., is a Jesuit priest and president emeritus of the University of San Francisco — and a friend of our founder, Sonny Manuel, S.J., for more than fifty years. His homilies circulate among friends by email each week; we gather them here, newest first.

Twenty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time · August 23, 2026

We Are the Keys

Shebna loses the key of the House of David; Peter is handed the keys of the kingdom. A homily on who holds the keys — and on becoming them: flawed and afraid, but faithful anyway.

Mass of the Holy Spirit, St. Mary’s Academy · August 11, 2026

Persist in Love

For the young women of St. Mary’s Academy at their opening Mass of the Holy Spirit — on the voice already inside each of us, and the one assignment that matters more than any other this school year.

Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time · June 14, 2026

Closer Than You Think

Jesus’ compassion was not pity at a distance — his gut turned. A homily on presence, on listening, and on the lost sheep who are nearer than we think.

Corpus Christi · June 7, 2026

Become What You Receive

Every dinner invitation risks refusal. A homily on the Eucharist as God’s own invitation — come, sit, eat with me — and on the communion we are asked to become.

Pentecost · May 24, 2026

Already on Fire

No wind, no flames, no rattling windows — a Pentecost homily on noticing the Spirit already at work in the most unremarkable-looking people we know.

Fifth Sunday of Easter · May 3, 2026

We Know the Way

“Lord, we don’t know where we’re going.” A homily for everyone standing at a crossroads — on the Way that is not a map, but a manner of walking.

Fifth Sunday of Lent · March 22, 2026

Out of Our Tombs

On the raising of Lazarus: a God who does not explain suffering away but weeps — and whose call out of the tomb is addressed to the living as much as to the dead.

Third Sunday of Lent · March 8, 2026

The Well

The Samaritan woman comes to the well at noon to avoid being seen — and leaves proclaiming. A homily on Dorothy Day, on emptiness, and on the places where God fills the heart again.

Second Sunday of Lent · March 1, 2026

Down the Mountain

On the Transfiguration — why faith is not about staying where we feel good, and why the mountaintop’s real gift is the word that holds in the lowlands: you are my beloved.

Ash Wednesday · February 18, 2026

Who Is Our Neighbor?

An Ash Wednesday homily for a nation in the midst of mass deportations: Lent as the season to ask whether we shape our politics by the Gospel, or distort the Gospel to fit our politics.

Second Sunday of Advent · December 7, 2025

Prepare the Way

Beginning with the opening scene of Godspell, a homily on Advent as the season of making room — not for a memory, but for a God present among us now.

Solemnity of Christ the King · November 23, 2025

Where Jesus Reigns

Kings rule by borders and decree; Jesus reigns only where he is welcomed. A homily on the question this feast actually asks — who, or what, rules my life?

Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time · November 16, 2025

Points of Light

On W. H. Auden’s “ironic points of light” — and the small, stubborn acts of kindness by which faith answers a violent and despairing time.

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